It’s a balmy Sunday night in Mumbai and I step off the bus with a crisp 500-rupee note in my pocket.

I’ve spent the last twelve hours with 31 other backpacking foreigners on an Indian film set. Now, with the payment for our first gig as a “Bollywood” extra in hand (it feels slightly disingenuous to call a soap opera in its first season Bollywood), we’ve been released.

After being inside all day, the night feels cool and dark and alive.

On the way home, I pass Leopold’s Café – a Colaba classic and Mecca to any Shantaram-toting traveler in Mumbai. The place is bursting at the seams, but I decide to ask if, on the off chance, they have a table for one available.

And there, in the far back corner, tucked between tables of quite elegantly dressed Indian couples, is table #31, a tiny square thing with my name on it. Although I contemplate a celebratory Kingfisher beer, Raju from Bangalore – his brown eyes as gleaming as his finely groomed mustache – talks me into “warm apple pie with ice cream,” with which it only seems fitting to order a service tea.

I’ll be honest; this is the image of warm apple pie Raju painted in my mind:

Apple pie photo

And here is what lovely Raju brought me:

Leopold's Cafe in Mumbai

Pink ice cream aside, the pie is sweet, the tea is piping hot, and the steady hum and chatter of Leopold’s customers is comforting – a perfect soundtrack to reading the copy of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo I picked up in my hostel.

I’ve just turned to page 134 when I sense someone approach me. He introduces himself as William, from France, and would like to know if I’d care to join him and his friends at their table. I’m moved by this invitation and carry my backpack and cup of tea over. There is Caroline from Provence, Benoit from Montpelier, and William himself is “from the Alps.”

Within minutes, we’re sharing stories like old friends. Caroline and Benoit describe where they’ve traveled to over the last six months – an impressive itinerary stretching from Cuba and Bolivia to Hawaii and New Zealand – and I explain the exploits of the Rickshaw Run to them, as well as my new book idea.

But it’s a question William asked when I first sat down with them that keeps circling in my head.

“You are not afraid to be alone?”

And his response later on, after I stand to leave and thank him for saying hello, gets me thinking even more:

“Well,” he says, “we do not do it all the time, but sometimes why not? There is no risk.”

But there is a risk, isn’t there? To introduce oneself to a stranger, unsure of how they’ll react. Or to ask for a table for one on a busy Sunday night, unsure of what all those other tables of friends will think of someone reading on their own. A risk, no matter how small, is still a risk.

I’ve thought a lot about what I want to say in my first post of 2013. Should it be a round-up of my top 12 places from 2012, like I wrote in 2010 and 2011? Should it be a post of my top 5 resolutions for 2013, like I did last year? Alas, every idea has felt like something I should write and not something I necessarily want to.

In the end, all I really want to say is this: Let’s make 2013 epic. Let’s take risks and do things that scare us and exhilarate us and live a year we won’t regret. Let’s order warm apple pie, even if there’s a chance it will come with flamingo pink ice cream. Deal?

It’s now late Monday morning and in a few hours, I have plans to meet up with Caroline, Benoit, and William again for dinner. I fell in love with this city last year; back on the streets of Bombay for a second time, I’m just as in awe of the possibilities they hold.

Mumbai, as it always seems to, has worked its magic yet again.

Photos of Mumbai

Happy belated New Year to you from Mumbai! I can’t thank you enough for coming on this journey with me all year.

Apple pie photo used courtesy of the Drum and Monkey.

10 Comments

  • Great post! It’s always fun to read about your own city from another person’s point of view! 🙂

    Mumbai is magical indeed, especially in the way it (almost imperceptibly) changes you and moulds your thoughts. Which soap did you act in, then?

    Let’s make 2013 absolutely epic! 🙂

    • Hey Abhijit! So sorry to just get back to you, but thanks as always for your comment. I love what you said about Mumbai and definitely agree with it. Ah, and I have the name of the soap written down, but can’t remember it right now – it was just in its first season anyways, so I imagine you might not have heard of it yet 🙂 Hope 2013’s off to a wonderful start for you so far!

      • Haha.. yes, Indian TV has way too many soaps than it needs (which is zero). And I doubt if I’d have heard of it even if it was an older one! 🙂

        Yup, I have a trip planned for the States in March! Where are you off to after India?

        • Haha! Yes, this soap didn’t look *too* promising, but you never know 🙂 And that’s great to hear about your next trip – whereabouts are you headed in the States? I myself am headed home for a little while after India…my brother is graduating from uni in May and my sister’s getting married in June, so I’m looking forward to some fun family times! Hope you’ve enjoyed the recent snow in London (at least I heard there was some maybe?…)

    • Thanks, Dad 🙂 I’m glad to have met William and his friends as well – although I wish you and Mom had been there to join me that night in Leopold’s!

  • You met three of my “countryfolk”? (I had to put this in quotations as I feel a bit of cheap calling it my homeland, never having lived there). I’m glad you had some people to ring in the new year (day) – particularly from a culture in which you are quite interested. Did you learn anything new?

    p.s. I am catching up on inbox — you will have an onslaught of comments from me this afternoon!

    • Yay! I have so loved responding to your “onslaught” 🙂 It’s always so wonderful to hear from you! And yes, I did indeed meet three of your countryfolk, and then I met yet another Frenchman the next time I was in Mumbai. There seems to be something about that city that attracts them there! And of course, both times I thought of you and our shared Francophilia – we’ll get there together one day yet 🙂

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